There are things in the world that are better left that way. It is far more useful to just accept things as they are and not insist yourself on making them go in accordance to what you want. In the long run, you will disappoint yourself and even get hurt. 

Just let it be. If it comes, it happens…thank you. If it does not…still thank you.

Every circumstance in this life is bounded and filled with choices. The options provided for you are your possible paths on how to go on with your life. You have to blame no one for the life that you have right now since everything is by your choice and your choice only. Everyone should know how to choose correctly because sometimes, there are no more chances.